Nothing like a big hanging fat bag. I think he has fetish for big woman . I thought I was the only one with a wife like that. What is a healthy body weight for you as an individual. Just be honest and upfront and complementary of her new size and shape. Periodically, we also mention in some of the posts on this site to help serve you better. After she had our son it didn't seem like she lost that much weight . I keep in shape attending to their needs. And then listen to him! I envision that one day in the not too distant future I will have to hire a full time aid/nanny/housekeeper for my wife and chubby kids. Less explaining means more time for eating. Trust me, she knows she has put on weight. Cookie Notice Sounds like someone has never been with a man of substance.. My boyfriend and I have been dating about 3 almost 4 months now. I made sure to wear a slightly too small shirt so it kept sliding up over my belly a little and I had to keep pulling it down. I just want to tell him, because it's better for his health and his self esteem, but I don't know how to start the conversation or if I should tell him. Show up, love him, give yourself a break, forgive yourself, keep loving him. turns out all i was was fat. Sounds like your wife doesnt want you to lose any weight. I've been married for the past 5 years and I was about 300lbs back then and now I've gained to a about 400lb . By the way I'm also attractive for men, I'm a slim tonified girl with a nice ass. A lot of women can't get past the fact that a tall, fit, active guy has a wife that's bigger around and wider than she is tall. Cookie Notice I've blown past every milestone we've set, she has a heavy hand when it comes to feeding. With you at what weight will you or would you stop letting your husband keep getting fatter, is the a upper limit or just see where it goes? The relationship is so much better not to mention the s** just gets better and better. Have a strong preference for bigger girls, but the one I married wasnt. How much did you weigh when you got married? Once you have taken care of his diet, make sure your husband engages in regular strength training like lifting heavy weights to increase his muscle growth and Lean Body Mass because that will eventually increase the Basal Metabolic Rate or BMR. He was (and for me still is) like a God on Earth. Disclaimer: My website and blog should not be considered as being a replacement for Professional Doctors advice. If hes defensive, thats understandable, if frustrating. Also have a foot fetish and love me some meaty BBW feet.BBW fans also seem to really love my wife and her feet. 98 pounds. When we go out to eat he encourages me to eat more, and when I say I am full he just says, C'mon, just one more bite. I think our society is so focused on thinness that we havent asked ourselves the other side of the question - Whats wrong with a little fat? I've discussed the ways to make him happy and deal with this situation with a calm state of mind. Having a large amount of visceral fat in your body can cause various types of problems like , resistance to insulin leading to type 2 diabetes. Who a I to take that away from him . But no plans for diet or exercise to lose all this weight, unless, you know, something goes wrong with my health. There is nothing better than being able to eat whatever you want and get as fat as you want and your partner adores the fat on you! My wife is very fat now I love the curves saggy belly think she is around 380 pounds. It's difficult, challenging, and potentially straining to be in a relationship with someone who has a weight complex. I not only love to eat--a lot!-- but my husband is a gourmet chef. And he's a really cool guy-----BUT he doesn't workout, and never really has. Sophie-X. As far as you know right now, hes worth it and the relationship is worth it. A link that will let you reset your password has been emailed to you. Wish us both luck! Its fun to have great food and enjoy moments with delicious food! Well, she knew I wouldn't mind at all if she gained weight, so she soon was eating anything she wanted, and the fat piled on. The looks we get are priceless and I can tell they are based in jealousy. If his face stays handsome and his body blows up like a balloon but he can still f--k, no problem. After a while I realized she won't change and now am just enjoying the ride with her. Im used to being in charge of things. Stop reducing us and trying to explain away our existence. I love to show my fat wife off to all the skinny b******. Perfection! I'll bet they ready have physical limitations that will affect their health down the line. Consider stepping away and saying, "I need a moment after what you just said." Avoid engaging in further conversation until you've stepped away and had some space. I love his weight pressing down on me, and his belly sagging when he's on top. Is he feeling that too? She might not want to say something because she doesnt want to hurt your feelings (if shes not into it). Fatten him up! The cold, crummy, thrilling, miraculous truth of the matter is that attraction changes over time. One solid inch up several not-so-firm inches out. I think you should bring it up to her. 9. I told her she could never be too fat for my liking and right then she said then she would grow for me and now she is a a beautiful 709 pound beauty and still stuffing herself with all the fattening foods that I buy for her. I've put on over 120lbs of pure fat since then, sitting around 322 now. There are three main ways to determine body composition-. They'd hate it!!!!! 19 "I Don't Believe In Marriage". So you should still put some care into his diet and exercise. The weight symbolizes a lack of effort to maintain the relationship, lack of sexual connection, failure to prioritize health or simply a growing apart. Different body type now and I find it extremely alluring and sexy. Having an obscenely fat gorgeous wife is truely one of life's extreme pleasures. Just please do not take that out on him or his body. And raising my beautiful girls the same way. Buying him things that are too large helps, and encouraging him to wear sweatpants on weekend so he can eat all he wants but his pants won't be tight. What kinds of things are they saying? But: He's fat. I agree that there are a lot worse things than a husband who puts on some weight over the years. until I eat it all. The good news about this is that even though youre less attracted to your boyfriend right now (fine, valid, morally neutral), there is opportunity for that to change, for your attraction to him to grow again. He wants to keep you for himself - He is obsessed with you and wants to ensure that you stay with him forever. I got wet instantly just thinking about it! More often, it waxes and wanes. Her sweet tooth is out of control, and I make sure it stays that way by having a constant supply of her favorites on hand at all times. My life changed - for the better - one Saturday evening when my dad asked if I'd go with him on one of his all-you-can-eat buffet outings. So I recently asked my husband that if he could choose what weight I could be, what would he choose (Im 55 and WAS about 125 pounds). Drink some more soda than before. But it's amazing how often we jump through psychological hoops of self-justification to . I'm very glad to hear that you and your children enjoy eating and being fat. His legs and arms are still quite lean. He's intelligent, accomplished, emotionally mature, kind, loving, and funny. Feeling that my pants dont fit anymore is a turn on. He's not overly muscular, but he's lean and sculpted. Abuse increases my appetite, so further gaining is inevitable. I'm retired! When we got married, my 5'5" wife was chubby at 175 lbs. Sounds nice. Happy gaining! At that height, you have to be 180 pounds to be on the cusp of obesity. All I can think of when he does that is this is how its going to be from now on. If she is not okay with that then drop her like a hot potato. Both mom and baby came through with flying colors. She agreed to gain weight when we met and today she wants to add more pounds for me. It really hurt my feelings. By keeping his belly full and pushing him beyond his limits, in a few years you can really fill him out. My suggestion is to talk about it and if both of you can't come to an agreement and it doesn't sound like you're meant to be together. People with skinny fat tend to have really attractive bodies, so its no surprise that you like your boyfriends skinny fat body. Finally a Fat Boyfriend. I weighed 250 pounds when I married. My 1.5 year old is almost 80 lbs. Nobody f****** asked you. As a fat woman myself, I'm still struggling with how I feel about it. Show up, love him, give . Its definitely worth it in the end to achieve a healthier lifestyle. He calls it belly s**, but it usually leads to the real thing. I try my best to still have fun but I feel like I been betrayed. Can you touch each other more (gross sentence, sorry)? I had always struggled to maintain even that weight, but he always was saying to eat as much as I want and not worry about my weight, so I did, and the pounds piled on in short order. I've been with my hubby for 15 years now, second marriage for both of us. Today, I came across yet another headline (rudely) asking if my boyfriend was making me fat.. She seems to finally be accepting that shes just going to be a little more matronly. Rarely does it abruptly drop off a cliff and nosedive, sinking deeper and deeper into a nadir of nonsexiness. I need you to talk to a doctor about this. I keep getting fatter and she keeps aggressively offering me desserts and seconds. I'm at 250 now, heaviest I've ever been. A few more indulgent calories when I feel like a snack or a special dessert. I spent enough time growing it! I LOVE it when people ask me about my weight gain, I saw an old friend earlier this week that I haven't seen in a few years and she was SHOCKED at how much weight I've put on. I wish and Im fairly certain youd agree that weight didnt have such a cultural significance placed on it. And always provide dessert. When Your Husband Gets Fat. Shes coming off hip surgery so is a lot less active. She is easiky twice the weight of her closest chubby classmate. On top of that, healthiness is not better than unhealthiness. #nothingbutlove . Two years later, we have both put on weight. The content published on this blog is for informational purposes only. There are people that look. My wifes been quietly adding bigger portions to my plate and offering dessert. He is fully aware, Im sure, that his body has changed. Just because you like it doesnt mean being fat is healthy for your body. I feel free to indulge without need to justify anything, especially to strangers with dubious intentions. Plus he carries most of his weight in his tummy and face. Then she "might think about restraining herself, unless I decide not too", she said with a naughty smile. Liver is one of the key organs in the body which removes toxins and helps break down fats to make them digestible. I should probably just say to h*** with it and just let them eat and be big and fat. That doesnt make you a bad person. From a purely physical standpoint, the softness feels nice. Well, a year ago, I gots preggo, and the doctor's like, I gots to loose weight, cuz I was like 320 pounds and He says its gonna be a prob for the pregancy. In that case, you probably like the way he is getting fat. 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